CHANGE THE OUTCOME I can't be in control of what happens (I wish I could), but I can be in control of my thoughts. Learning how to change my thoughts has changed my life. Literally. Because how you think, - the thoughts you hold inside, determine how you feel. It's as simple as that. For example, if I think it's going to be difficult to write a book, first, I'm going to subconsciously do everything to keep putting it off - even though I do want to write a book! When I finally sit ...